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Communion with God, Spiritual living, Uncategorized

May 25, 2010

What Happens When God Speaks

Having the orientation to the natural realm that we do, we often talk about God speaking as though His Voice operates like sound waves. His Voice is a spiritual voice, a spiritual essence, almost all the time. He isn’t speaking to natural “ears” but to our spiritual “ears”.

Therefore, the process has a parallel to the natural, but also some differences. Our natural ears do three things so that we can hear sounds. They funnel sound waves into our ears, they recognize the different values of air pressure, and then they turn those changes in air pressure into electrical signals that our brain can understand.

To facilitate hearing in the natural we do things like turn our face toward the place the sound is coming that we want to hear, try or expect to understand the sound, and often manage other sound around us that is interfering with what we are trying to hear. We might do that by turning down our radio or TV, walking in out of the traffic to hear on a phone, or taking an ipod to a quiet place to hear it play.

Make no mistake though. Natural hearing is a mechanical function not a spiritual function and there are important differences.

Spiritual hearing is different because God doesn’t use sound waves when He speaks. We can extrapolate this because when God spoke in the Bible some people heard Him audibly, but not everyone heard Him or heard the same thing.

We read about this in John 12:28-29: “‘Father, glorify Your name.’ Then a voice came from heaven, saying, ‘I have both glorified it and will glorify it again.’ Therefore the people who stood by and heard it said that it had thundered. Others said, ‘An angel has spoken to Him.”[1]

Experientially, we can observe today that same phenomenon. My friend Sherry who is very credible, has known God many years and been around prophetic ministry for decades heard the audible Voice of God one night praying for one of my children. She is unequivocal about what and how she heard Him speak (audibly), but the others present didn’t hear Him audibly.

Spiritual hearing comes to our spirit, not our body. Most often our spirit and body are in the same place of course so it is easy to get into the frame of reference that God is using our body to speak to, but that simply isn’t the case.

There is still the parallel though. When we hear through our ears we should listen and pay attention. When God speaks to our spirit, we should listen and pay attention.

When we have an ear infection, or perhaps our ears have been stopped up with water from swimming, our ears are impaired of hearing.

Similarly, when our spirit is full of “junk”, perhaps anxiety or anger or just a long TO DO list… maybe even a bundle of opinions, our spiritual hearing is impaired. That is because just as sound waves travel our ear canal, spiritual waves flow into our spirit. What we perceive as a spiritual word is often a mixture of what the spiritual essence was, and what it has mixed with in our spirit.

Think of it this way:

Assemble three small glass bowls with a spoon for each. Fill one with water, one with white icing, and one with chocolate icing. Now, add four drops of red food coloring  to each bowl and mix them well with the spoon. For you guys who have not spent a lot of time with icing and food coloring, I will tell you what happens.

The white icing becomes a lighter shade of the original color. In other words, pink. How light or dark pink it is will be determined by how much icing was in the bowl. Take the same amount of food coloring (spiritual essence) and mix it with twice as much icing and it will be even lighter.

The chocolate icing will be the least changed of the three. The darkness of the chocolate allows less of the red to show through, and if you double the amount of chocolate you may barely find a tinge of red in the icing.

The water on the other hand will alter the red color the least. If you used a small enough amount of water, the color may match the color of the food coloring. If you use a great deal more water you can eventually dilute the color, however even twice as much water might not make a discernable difference.

The spiritual essence of what God is speaking and communicating to us is just like that food coloring.

If we are mostly full of the Holy Spirit we will receive and perceive the essence of what God is speaking. The spiritual essence of what God is communicating to us will not be diluted by who or what we are.

When we are opaque, even with things we perceive to be good (works of man, religion), and devoting ourselves to God, we still only get a dilution of the essence of what God is speaking to us.

It is a funny thing about Christians that we carry our opinions and offenses thinking that we have sanctified them and so we can keep them. (Not true of course but a topic for another day.) So often because we are the “white icing” and not the chocolate, we think we have arrived.

The chocolate icing here of course is symbolic of darkness. Spiritual essence can be lost in darkness, never even registering in less we are really looking for it.

Metaphorically speaking water represents spiritual things, and the opaque icings represent things of the world, good or bad, light or dark.

Our lesson is that to hear God is a spiritual function, and it happens in our spirit. The more pure our spirit, the more easily we will discern the essence of what God is communicating. Many of the things that make us good natural listeners such as carrying about the person speaking, giving them our attention, not jumping in with our judgments and opinions about what they are saying, are also good habits to help us hear God more.

Nevertheless, hearing God is not the same as hearing people, and important things that will help us to hear God better are distinct because they don’t occur just in the moment, but in every moment.

Remember Luke 12:27, “Consider the lilies, how they grow; they do not toil, they do not spin. And yet I say to you that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.”[2]

Today, if you will empty yourself of the cares of the world, release your opinions, judgments, offenses, etc you will find the spiritual essence, the essence of what God is saying to you, to be clearer and stronger within you.


[1] New King James Version®

[2] New King James Version®

Communion with God, Prayer, Relationships, Spiritual living, Trust, Uncategorized

February 10, 2010

Connecting with God (Quest for Communion, Pt2)

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If we accept that spiritual life is life with God at the center, then we need to be diligent about how we move to make that our reality.  To have God at the center of our life means that we are in communion with God, connected to Him. When we come into a tangible relationship with God, the only place He can be in our life is in the center. Prayer is the path to communion. There are many kinds of prayer: devotional prayer, intercessory prayer, prayers of petition. 

Years ago our Pastor, Larry Lea, taught us to pray using the Lord’s Prayer as a model, an outline. I want to share this with you because praying in this way will help you to increase your communion, your relationship with God. 

Remember that you are praying to cultivate your connection with God, to share with Him your heart, and to hear His heart. There is no place for recitation or scripts here. Use the outline, but let it flow from your spirit. Listening is as important as speaking.

  1. The scriptures are in bold type. You may have them committed to memory but pray them out loud, speaking to God.
  2. Then, use the italics as suggestions, “ice breakers”. Follow your heart and spirit, using your own words.
  3. Remember that you are after communication and connection. Listening is as important or more important than speaking.
  4. If you pray out loud, it will be easier to discern your voice from His.
  5. Find a quiet place, preferably at the beginning of your day and just as Jesus said, Pray this way:

Mat 6:9  .. Our Father, who is in Heaven, Hallowed by Your name.

  • Oh God, oh Father, You are the Most Holy (exalted, worthy of complete devotion) One.
  • God you are omniscient (complete awareness, knowledge).
  • You are omnipotent (almighty).
  • You God are omnipresent (present everywhere at one time).
  • I praise you and worship you God, Almighty God.

Mat 6:10 Your Kingdon come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.

  • God, today I say not my will, but Your will be done: for myself, my family, and in all facets of my life. I pray for Your will to be done and Your Kingdom to come.
  • Please show me Your will for my life so that I can pray for it, and be in concert with You.
  • For my  (work, school, community, state, nation, world) God I pray for Your will to be done.
  • For my enemies and adversaries Lord I bless those that curse me, and I pray for those who use me. Bless them Lord.
  • God open my eyes to see what You see. Illuminate my vision and my hearing so that I can embrace what You are doing in me, and around me.

Remember to be listening, not just speaking.

Mat 6:11  Give us this day our daily bread;

  • God I know that You are my provider. Help me to be content with Your provision today, and to trust You for all my needs.
  • Lord, please tell me what my real needs are. What are the things that I don’t know to ask for?
  • Have You made provision for me that I’m not seeing?
  • Am I asking for things that You, by Your wisdom and love, are not wanting for me?
  • Please change my mind, and teach me to be content in You.
  • If I’m going one way, and You have a different way for me God, please show me, close those wrong doors, speak to me, help me.

Mat 6:12 and forgive us our debt as we also forgive our debtors.

  • God please forgive me of my sins. I am so sorry for the things that I have done ________________________ that are not pleasing to You. I am so grateful that You are a God that forgives.
  • I choose today to forgive all those who have sinned against me.  Including  _____________________  who have slandered me, injured me, gossiped about me, or stolen from me, undermined me or ________________ …. I forgive them Lord.
  • If I come up short on this today Lord, please help me to walk in forgiveness continuously.

Mat 6:13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Yours is the Kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever.Amen.

  • Today God please order my steps according to Your will and Your ways. God please put Your words in my mouth. Help me to see what You see, in  people, in circumstances, in others.
  • You God, from whom no secrets are hidden, please deliver me from temptation and line up my thinking with Your thoughts.
  • Line up my feelings with You and what You are are doing.
  • Please put Your shield of protection around me/us and keep our enemies at bay.
  • You can do this because You are Almighty God, Creator and Ruler of the universe.
  • It is to You that all glory goes God. Help me to magnify Your Holy Name.
  • Thank  you God that you are Almightly God. Amen
  • Remember, God already knows what you think. If you engage Him, and you listen to Him, you can know what He thinks, what He sees.  He will speak to you and you will be changed.

     

    If you are changed, if you are transformed by God, others around you will be as well.

    (All scriptures are from the New Living Translation, and no, I do not know how to create a footnote or end note in Wordpress.)

Communion with God, Prayer, Spiritual living, Uncategorized

January 18, 2010

Quest for Communion

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Spiritual living is life with God at the center. We are born self-centered. As we grow and mature in spiritual wholeness, we move from self-centered to God centered. A God centered life is lived in communion with Him.

Communion with God is our objective, but moving from an intellectual understanding of the objective into a dynamic, flourishing relationship can cause even the most intent of us to flounder. The answer though may be simple.

Many of us learned to pray by reciting words, most often in the form of requests, to God. We didn’t learn to listen, and our Western minds calculated the substance of our prayer life by the measure of answered prayer. While we know this isn’t really the measure of our prayers, and we also know that often answers to prayer come in forms we have not been looking for, our framework for understanding and evaluating drives us back to this conclusion. Tangible and expected answer to prayer = connection to God. Waiting for answers = a lot of discouragement mixed with  questions like:

                Does God hear me? Apparently not.

                Does God care? Apparently not.

                Do I matter? Possibly not.

                And so on. (You don’t have to admit any of this.) Things that we have an intellectual understanding are not true, can still feel true.

 

The truth is that prayer is not substantially about a “grocery” type list that we take to God and hope he will fill. Prayer is really about communion, communing with God.

 

The problem is that since we cannot always see and touch and feel God in our natural state, it isn’t very easy to “chat”. Have you ever tried to carry on a conversation with someone who didn’t respond to you? It throws you off your rhythm, doesn’t it? God of course does respond to us, but we need to learn to listen. We need to find our rhythm, so to speak, for communion with God.

In truth there are several kinds of rhythms, several kinds of conversations you might say, that we have with God. There is the liturgical rhythm, there is the “grocery” list rhythm for things like a new job, more revenue, health and healing, and then there is the dramatic, “oh God, oh God” (aren’t you paying any attention) rhythm for those surprises and emergencies that cross our paths from time to time.

My experience and my preferred rhythm, is to begin my day with God. Some people like coffee in the morning, some people need to get their newspaper out of the way (maybe just news?). Whatever you do to get your day started, I would like to challenge you to make spending time with God your first daily priority. Let me assure that this is not for God’s benefit, but for yours.

If you will enter into communion at the start of your day, I am very confident that you will find it an amazing and fruitful experience. Your mind will be set on the things of God, you will be in a place of communion and you may find that your entire day goes better, because you embarked upon it with Him, instead of trying to summon Him in a moment of need or desperation later on. You see, if you enter in communion with Him in the morning you will be highly unlikely to then say something like, “Nice spending time with God but I need to get to work.” Or some such thing. Get up in the morning, put your hand in His, and stay there. You don’t have to stay in that chair or room. You go shopping with friends, go to lunch with other people, why not go with God?

Have you ever spent time with someone who was expert in some area, only to realize afterwards that you have more understanding or insight into that area yourself now? The same thing happens when we spend time with God. Our mind is set on spiritual things, and as we go about our day we are much more attuned to the spiritual overlay of our natural world.

Make no mistake. The spiritual realm is senior to the natural realm. Nothing occurs in the natural but what is a result of something in the spiritual realm. By seeing the spiritual and the natural we see better what is happening, what is going to happen, and hopefully we will see it as God wants us to see it.

When I married Greg I didn’t have much of an opinion about football one way or the other. Greg on the other hand played football in high school and then at the Air Force Academy. He liked football, and without any real conscious decision, I began to like football too.

The same thing happens with God. If you hang out with God, you will pick up His interests. You will start to see things that you would have missed before, and things that were not important to you in the past, will take on meaning. You will become more like Him. That is communion, and that is the real reason that we should pray.

 (To be continued..)

Gifting, Spiritual living, Uncategorized

January 17, 2010

So you can see sin? (And you think that is a gift?)

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Satan is the leader in calling out sin, and making a spectacle of it. Whose team are you on?

One of the most encouraging things that I have discovered since Raising Spiritual Children: Cultivating a Revelatory Life was published is that a consistent response is that “this is not just about raising children, but it is for adults, too.” That is truth on several levels. One level is that what we missed out on when we were children can often be put into place when we are older, and we can have full restoration in that area.

In other words, when something we missed as a child is put in place within us, all that we missed along the way or over the years is also established in us as though we had had it all along.

Think of a person who has never experienced unconditional love. Their life will have been lived a certain way, with some clear and distinct voids and difficulties. However, at 30 or 40 or 50, if they experience unconditional love and can receive it, that void they have carried all of their life will be as if it was covered with a balm. Although they may have an intellectual knowledge of how they were growing up, they will not only be different today, but the past will not impinge on them in the same way either.

The unconditional love that they experience will make them whole.

It is a little bit like a computer. If your computer has missing or corrupted files, some or all of your computer programs will not work correctly. Overtime, performance even may deteriorate. Some things might work fine, of course, but there will be those programs or functions that simply do not work the same way they work for other people.

Once you restore that missing or corrupted file though, all the programs will work just like they were intended to.

This is a picture of restoration.

People who have been damaged or injured in life may have sinned (don’t we all), but correcting sin isn’t what they most need. What they most need is to have the important voids in their lives filled, healed, covered — pick your terminology. The outcome is restoration.

Today, there is a cultural mindset that instead of addressing the injury and wounds in a person, many people want to be the authority to hand out punishment and keep the focus on a person’s sin. (Trust me, sin will persevere. It doesn’t matter what penalty you try to extract for it; sin will pop up again doing its damage to someone else.) Some want to assess punishment, as if that is their role. (Some people do have this role of course, but it is a small fraction of the people who try to take it on.)

Confronted with the woman in adultery, remember what Jesus said to the accusers who wanted to stone her: “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” [1] After the accusers had scattered, Jesus turned to the woman. “Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?

No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.” [2]

What changed? The woman changed of course. She had been in the presence of the Jesus, and his impartation of love and hope and kindness transformed her, forever.

As a revelatory person, I see more sin than I would like to. I know that Jesus would have seen far more than me. I also see that Jesus worked to bring sinners to Him and to health and to wholeness. I believe that His words and His love imparted to the woman in adultery transformed her, and made her whole. They healed her and gave her hope.

So I try to let the revelation of sin just be a red flag to point out who needs love and hope and impartation.  I want to be able, by the Holy Spirit, to be a person who helps to build His church.

I want to have eyes that see what He sees, and to be the mouthpiece for His message, a carrier of His transforming love.

One of the most gratifying things we experience as parents is when our children grow up and do the things that we think are good and valuable.

As children of the King, I submit that we need to stop trying to please our detractors, stop acting out of fear, and make certain that we are pleasing Him.

It is the sinners around us who need us the most. Do you have what they need?

Jeremiah 29:11:  “‘For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.’”


[1] John 8:7

[2] John 8:10-11

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