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April 26, 2010

Today: Tell the Truth

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Zechariah 8:16-17 But this is what you must do: Tell the truth to each other. Render verdicts in your courts that are just and that lead to peace. Don’t scheme against each other. Stop your love of telling lies that you swear are the truth. I hate all these things, says the LORD.”

How did it happen that we have become so comfortable with not telling the truth? Not telling the truth of course is called lying. I’m not talking about the kinds of lies that people tell for the purpose of greed, personal gain at the expense of another, to damage another person or to sustain criminal activity. We all know that is wrong.

I’m talking about what people call “white” lies, as if there is some kind of sanctified lying. It is like calling witchcraft, “white witchcraft”. Witchcraft is witchcraft and lying is lying. Just because someone goes to church, doesn’t make their lying (or their witchcraft for that matter) somehow acceptable.

Let’s be clear. God said, “Tell the truth to each other”.

This isn’t just a little problem. This is a huge problem.

For example: your friend Jamie asks you if you have heard the rumors about them being sloppy (or rude, or dishonest or whatever)? It seems like it is just a little thing (a lie), to say that you haven’t heard about these rumors. After all, is it going to make Jamie feel better to know that you too have heard the rumors? Why embarrass them? It will be awkward.

If you go through this process, you are being disingenuous, and dishonest. Not to mention that you are enabling others to gossip and lie by trying to cover those actions up.

The truth is that a lie at this point will hurt Jamie. Jamie has already heard the rumor so you’re not telling them anything they don’t know, except perhaps that you too, had been gossiping about them.

Are you really protecting them? Or are you lying to protect your own reputation (your pride)? You see God hates lies, and there is no lie that stands on a good foundation. If you don’t want to admit to participating in gossip, don’t participate. Even if you lie to your friend, God still knows the truth. You are distancing yourself from God, when you don’t tell the truth.

What Jamie needs isn’t more confusion, which is what a lie always brings with it. What Jamie needs is a friend who values them enough to tell them truth, even though it may not be easy to do.

An even bigger issue is that little lies beget big lies, and big lies become entrenched in our lives, our homes and our families. They can carry on for generations. Lies exist and take root in God’s absence, in the dark. In the dark is where the enemy can establish himself in our life. Lies hide secrets, and some secrets can hold generations in bondage. Families have secrets to keep and these secrets (lies) keep people in bondage.

No one wants to be lied to, so how can we justify lying to someone else?

A person who tells the truth is a person who can be counted on. They are a person who can be believed, and they are a person who can become a bridge between believers, unbelievers and God.

Ephesians 4:15  Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of His body, the church.

The most important and immediate reason to tell the truth is so that you can remain in communion with God. First and foremost we need to be focused on doing what we see God doing; saying what we hear God saying, and that will always be true, and always be the truth.

Ephesians 4:23-25 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body.

 

Character versus Gifting, Destiny, spiritual attributes

July 31, 2009

Why don’t prophets see sin?

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This question seems to be of great interest again lately, since the end of the Lakeland meetings. I think it is the result of people concluding that no one saw or knew the sin, or other issues that were rumbling below ground there. I would submit that is a flawed conclusion.

First of all, lets be clear.  Seeing sin is like dealing with demons.  It is all around us. Before we became strong believers we were taught the principal, “you get what you put your attention on”. If you put your attention on the demonic you will see demons everywhere.  If you put your attention on other people’s sin you will see it everywhere.  Truthfully a prophet will see sin even if it isn’t what they are looking for, because dealing with sin iis important and necessary.

Nevertheless, just because you see something doesn’t mean that you declare it publicly. Nowhere did God assign to his prophets the job of convicting people of their sin. This is the job of the Holy Spirit and it is not for anyone else to intervene, without direction from the Lord.  Even then, the Holy Spirit does not make public announcements about people’s sin.

There were some prophetic people who were detractors of Lakeland, and some who came alongside to try to support the leadership. Many people think this illustrates that some people saw the sin and some did not. I believe what this really illustrates is two different responses to the same revelation.

Someone said recently that a prophet minus love equals nothing which of course is true. (1 Corinthians 13:2) . Ask yourself, who demonstrated more love? Those who came along side their weakened brother to give aid (for which they have in fact taken quite a bit of criticism)? Or those who stood back and spoke critically of their weakened brother?

Assume God gives the prophet revelation of a man in adultery, and without any effort to minister to or help this man, the prophet tells everyone that the man is in adultery. Is the prophet right? Or good? Or commendable? Is the man in sin better for having been exposed? Does it draw the man in adultery closer to God to have been exposed by the man of God? I think not. Where is the love? That will tell you how valuable the event was.

Yes, some people like to demonstrate how revelatory they are. This is done for their own edification though, not for anyone else’s. 

So, I suppose we could say that it demonstrates self-love, but the scripture in 1 Corinthians is actually talking about our love for others.

On the other hand, if having revelation of sin the prophet goes to the sinner, prays for him, supports him, reminds him of God’s love for him, and God’s plan for his life, does that not demonstrate God’s love?  Nathan knew that David had sinned with Bathsheba, but he didn’t go the people and tell them about it.  He went to David, out of love, to help him.

This may not make the prophet more popular with people, because a lot of people want to see the demonstration of what the prophet knows, but I think it might well please God a great deal more.

So, the next time that you think a prophet didn’t see sin because they didn’t make a public pronouncement of it, please do reconsider.

On the flip side, do you think you might have more revelation from God, if you could be trusted to pray for the sinners, love the sinners, minister to the sinners, and keep it all between you and God?

You see, the important question isn’t “Why don’t prophets see sin? The important question, and I’m asking it truly in love, is why don’t we (individually) hear more from God?

(There are also other reasons why prophets don’t see things, and not all prophets see everything, but that is for another day.)

 

 

 

 

 

Character versus Gifting, Destiny

June 25, 2009

A Missing Attribute

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Have you ever considered that you can walk with God your entire life and not reach your destiny? Not become the person that God created you to be? If you don’t think this is true, consider the Israelites in the wilderness. We know that God was with them: He provided manna for their food and went before them as a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night. Their clothes and shoes didn’t wear out…Even so, we also know that the Israelites wandered in the wilderness for forty years because of their choice.

What really happened here? What was the missing attribute that kept them from God’s best for their lives? The evidence points to “courage”, or rather a lack of courage. When the leaders of the twelve tribes, including Joshua and Caleb went to spy out the Promised Land, they all saw the same things. In Numbers 13:27 they give this account: …”We entered the land you sent us to explore, and it is indeed a bountiful country—a land flowing with milk and honey. ” All the explorers saw the same bounty. They also saw the same obstacles that they would need to overcome.

Joshua and Caleb were ready to forge on across the Jordan River into the land the Lord had promised to them (Num 13:30), and yet the other ten leaders and explorers, seeing the same formidable enemies disagreed with Joshua and Caleb. They didn’t believe they could defeat these adversaries (Num 13:31), and they spread their bad report among the Israelites. The people wailed and whined and carried on, even wishing they had stayed in Egypt.

Did you ever wonder how all the explorers could have looked at the same bounty, and the same adversaries and come to such different conclusions? I submit to you that the key is indeed “courage”.  Joshua and Caleb had courage in their heart and so even though they saw the obstacles, they also could see how to overcome the enemy. The other leaders, in the absence of courage, could only see the enemy and no good outcome. When the Israelites tried to justify their actions, God called it rebellion. Have you ever known that you should do one thing, and then quickly justified not doing it with some rationale? We like to call this making excuses or justifying ourselves, but God may well be calling it rebellion.

I do believe that the missing ingredient for many of us today is courage. With courage our problems will look different. We talk a lot about character but knowing what is right is not very important or beneficial unless we have the courage to DO what is right. If we expect to reach our destiny, to become the people that God has created us to be, we must be people of courage, individually and corporately.

Don’t be fooled into thinking that just because God is for you, and with you (even like He was with the Israelites) that you are walking in God’s will for your life. God stayed with the Israelites for forty years in the wilderness but they never reached their destiny. 

What do you need courage for today? Do you have personal conflicts with friends, family members or others that you should deal with? Have made up excuses to justify the situation instead of risking your own vulnerability or rejection? Are you in a place where you need to make a stand for biblical principles but are instead justifying yourself to protect your reputation? Do you look the other way when it is time to pray for healing, or deliverance for others, lest you be seen to not succeed?  Have you become so risk averse that you are in danger of missing out on God’s purpose for your life?

Today please consider the high cost of avoiding risk taking. The cost isn’t your reputation, or your affluence. The cost very well may be that you are sacrificing your destiny, for the wilderness.

Character versus Gifting, Gifting

March 24, 2009

What Is A Prophetic Response To Sin?

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Let me begin by saying that I believe that there needs to be both governmental responses and individual responses when leadership falls, and they are different.  The governmental responses are within the scope of a few people per event.  We all have a role to make an appropriate individual response.

What is our role?  It is not, most of the time,  the identification and broadcast of sin in others.

Let me say that some of the easiest things for prophetic people to see are sins (in others, of course).  Here is a news flash.  When people are in sin, they know it (most of the time).  Much of the time when people are vulnerable, struggling to overcome their weaknesses, ripe for a fall, they know it.  Rarely do they need someone to tell them their condition.  What they do need is for someone to tell them how to get through their present state, to overcome and move forward into God’s plans and purposes for them.  They need to know that God is with them, and for them, and loves them.

If you think you are prophetic because you can see hidden sin I am here to tell you to grow up.  Seeing sin doesn’t make you a prophet.  It may mean that you are prophetically gifted, but it doesn’t make you a prophet. 

 As for letting people know about someone else’s sin, what is the model?  What is the motivation?  The sinner knows they are in sin, you know they are in sin, and of course, God knows. Does anyone else have a need to know about the sin?  If others need to know, are you the one who is called to act?

Biblically the prophets went to people to confront the sins of the people, of the nation.  They went to the leaders to confront the leader’s sin.

A good example is Nathan, who went to David after he sinned against Uriah and Bathsheba.  We don’t know when Nathan knew what was going on, or potentially what was going to go on.  We only know that when he went to David it doesn’t appear that he went to the people first.  There were no meetings in the streets calling David a murderer or adulterer that we know of.  There were great consequences for David’s sin, yet God always called David a man after His own heart.

David for his part suffered an enormous price for his sin yet he did survive.  For my part, I hope I am never a person who is found to attack or sin against someone that God calls a “man after His own heart.”

I don’t believe our contemporary prophets/apostles went to Lakeland because they were blinded to sin or weakness or because they needed to have some platform to promote any agenda.  They went to Lakeland to lend support (prayer, unity, leadership) because they did know there was vulnerability and because that is their apostolic role. Their role is very distinct from our individual role.

Like our present day prophets/apostles/national leaders, Nathan the prophet went directly to the King. 

There is nothing in the scriptures that leads us to conclude that Nathan “went public”, stirring up the people against David, like we often see today in these situations.

The role of prophetic people is not uncovering other leader’s weaknesses, vulnerabilities and sin in some cases, for the purpose of inspiring many thousands of people to join them in isolating, disdaining and discrediting a brother in Christ. 

 

This is not a mandate for hiding sin.  I believe in leaders making governmental responses to leaders, and for the rest of us to make godly individual responses.

 

I am not nearly so concerned about the events surrounding “Lakeland”.  I am concerned with how we, the members of the Body of Christ, individually respond.  I believe that how we respond to events like this one measure the condition of the church.

Here is my challenge to you.  Have you voiced your opinion about these current events?  Have you “warned” others about going to Lakeland, about Todd Bentley’s weaknesses or sins? His tattoos or appearance?  His marital struggles or other things that don’t look like you would like a man of God to look?  Have you asked or asserted that what happened in Lakeland couldn’t be God?  (In spite of the signs, wonders, miracles, etc..)

Can you imagine what it is like to wake up every day with thousands of carnal prayers and defaming words being spoken over you?  Twenty-four hour per day warfare, not from the wiccans, not from the New Age, but from the Church.  Maybe the question we should ask is not how did the leaders and work in Lakeland fall, but how did they endure so long in the face of what was coming against them?

What if more leaders had rallied people to intercede and support all the team at Lakeland, without division? Instead of focusing on the weaknesses and vulnerabilities of men, what if we would have focused on the awesomeness of God, what He was doing, and upheld our brothers and sisters in Christ - many of whom we know now suffer?  What role was played by those in the Church who heard these inciting reports?  ( I know that many, many people did rally in prayer and intercession, speaking life to what was happening in Lakeland. I also know that many went the opposing path.)

Proverbs 18:21 tells us: “Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit–you choose.[1]

We sap the strength and the peace of our fellow laborers, and then we act like their fall has nothing to do with us.  Perhaps the sin we need to ferret out is our own.

This lesson applies to us in many places of course.  In our homes, our church, where we work, the schools our children attend. Our words can kill or give life. Fruit or poison, all day we will make choices.

Choose life.

Patricia Mapes

Patricia Mapes

Executive Director, Nexus Connection.org

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Character versus Gifting, Gifting

March 18, 2009

Character Over Gifting

As a caveat let me say that I never went to Lakeland, FL and I have never attended a Todd Bentley meeting.  By his own admission Todd has issues in his life that demonstrate his weaknesses and shortcomings, and I have no opinion on any of that nor do I think it is my place to speak to it. Nevertheless,  when I read Rick Joyner’s first message on the topic of Todd Bentley’s restoration( http://www.morningstarministries.org/Articles/1000045589/MorningStar_Ministries/Media/Special_Bulletins/2009/Special_Bulletin_17.aspx )I sent it to my family and friends as an example of “Prophetic People Acting Prophetically. 

I was caught a little off guard by some of the responses that followed the release of that announcement. 

One of the big criticisms of Rick was that Todd’s now ex-wife was not part of the process or the announcement.  Personally, I believe that the reason Rick didn’t address her and their children more in his initial message was probably because they are not public figures and it isn’t appropriate, nor is there anything that will benefit them,  by bringing them into the public forum.  That is not my issue either though.

“Character is more important than gifting”, which was used against Rick in some responses, is my issue.  I have taught directly or indirectly to thousands of students over the year on this expression.  God has spoken to be about it many years ago and I am so sad to see how it used today, not just in this situation but in so many conflicts and judgements within the church. 

I believe that character over gifting is a message for a person to take into their heart and measure where they are putting their own value.  Instead it has become a club, a self-righteous mantra, used to beat people down .  I don’t believe that God ever intended for us to go about judging whether other people’s character was more substantive than their gifting.  I for one can hardly manage my own heart, let alone others.

Thank God for all of the good God did for people who went to Lakeland looking to encounter Him.  I for one am grateful that I serve a God who has mercy on sinners, being one myself.  Who am I to say that someone else’s sin trumps mine?  This is a slippery slope that leads, among other things, to the brotherhood against the Prodigal Son.

I agree that the process of resolving conflicts in Matt 18:15 is a great model and would resolve, oh maybe, 100% of the issues in the church today.  For those who don’t find themselves a party to this conflict directly it might be good to revisit Matt 18:23: the story  of a man forgiven a great debt who goes free only to imprison someone who owed him much lesser debt.

Or even Matt 7:1 “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged.

Personally, I would like to see us all become the church, instead of just talking about it.  (As in  being prophetic, instead of talking about it….)

Grace to you all.

Patty

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