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May 6, 2010

Season for Promotion

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Are you ready for graduation?  What have you recently qualified for?

A friend wrote in his blog this week that while recently attending the Michigan graduation of his sons, the Pro-Life protesters outside the venue at times drowned out the speaker.1

Also this week J. Lee Grady wrote about attending his daughter’s graduation in Georgia a few years ago. The keynote speaker, a State Legislator with well known conservative Christian values launched into a “blistering tirade” about immigration policy blaming immigrants for dangers, drugs and disease”. 2  The tenor of the ceremony changed and people became uncomfortable and embarrassed. All the parents, graduates and well wishers, along with foreign nationals (parents) were forced to sit through this diatribe which was inappropriate rather than uplifting and inspirational as the event called for.

2 Corinthians 19-23 says, “Even though I am free of the demands and expectations of everyone, I have voluntarily become a servant to any and all in order to reach a wide range of people: religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, the defeated, the demoralized-whoever. I didn’t take on their way of life. I kept my bearings in Christ-but I entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view. I’ve become just about every sort of servant there is in my attempts to lead those I meet into a God-saved life. I did all this because of the Message. I didn’t just want to talk about it; I wanted to be in on it!”  3

People change from the inside out. If we want to see people transformed into, as Paul says, “a God-saved life”, we need to quit taking on the ways of the world. Its like Bible thumping,  now means trying to thump people over the head with a Bible, as if they can be transformed by osmosis in that process. Does anyone want to change their life and become like the person beating them over the head (even if that is only figurative)? I don’t think so.

In fact, we may need to consider Paul’s admonition to not just talk about the “Message” but to be the “Message”.

The world already has plenty of hostility, quarreling, outbursts of anger, dissension, division. 4  We don’t like to be the recipient of these things,  so why do we think they will have a positive impact on others? Galatians goes on to say, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. 5

These are things that people must experience and see in our lives, if we are to have any real hope of “leading” them into a God-saved life. We cannot use the ways of the world to achieve spiritual transformation. Only the Spirit changes things for good for eternity.

My suggestion: Today deliberately speak and impart the fruits of the spirit to at least five people, plus everyone you live with. Even better, every time you speak, first deliberately chose one of the fruits of the spirit to demonstrate in your speaking.  No talking about it, just doing it, being it.

In other words, stop talking about Christianity, and do it.

When I was young my Mother always reminded us as we went out the door that we needed to speak and behave in a certain way. The implication was that what we did and said reflected on our whole family.

Today, are you a good reflection of the God’s family?

Yes, I know that I’m preaching to the choir here. Someone please tell me why that seems necessary?


1. www.michaelhindes.com

2. J. Lee Grady, Fire in My Bones, May 5, 2010

3. The Message

4. Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Gal 5:20

5. Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Gal 5:22-23

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April 26, 2010

Today: Tell the Truth

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Zechariah 8:16-17 But this is what you must do: Tell the truth to each other. Render verdicts in your courts that are just and that lead to peace. Don’t scheme against each other. Stop your love of telling lies that you swear are the truth. I hate all these things, says the LORD.”

How did it happen that we have become so comfortable with not telling the truth? Not telling the truth of course is called lying. I’m not talking about the kinds of lies that people tell for the purpose of greed, personal gain at the expense of another, to damage another person or to sustain criminal activity. We all know that is wrong.

I’m talking about what people call “white” lies, as if there is some kind of sanctified lying. It is like calling witchcraft, “white witchcraft”. Witchcraft is witchcraft and lying is lying. Just because someone goes to church, doesn’t make their lying (or their witchcraft for that matter) somehow acceptable.

Let’s be clear. God said, “Tell the truth to each other”.

This isn’t just a little problem. This is a huge problem.

For example: your friend Jamie asks you if you have heard the rumors about them being sloppy (or rude, or dishonest or whatever)? It seems like it is just a little thing (a lie), to say that you haven’t heard about these rumors. After all, is it going to make Jamie feel better to know that you too have heard the rumors? Why embarrass them? It will be awkward.

If you go through this process, you are being disingenuous, and dishonest. Not to mention that you are enabling others to gossip and lie by trying to cover those actions up.

The truth is that a lie at this point will hurt Jamie. Jamie has already heard the rumor so you’re not telling them anything they don’t know, except perhaps that you too, had been gossiping about them.

Are you really protecting them? Or are you lying to protect your own reputation (your pride)? You see God hates lies, and there is no lie that stands on a good foundation. If you don’t want to admit to participating in gossip, don’t participate. Even if you lie to your friend, God still knows the truth. You are distancing yourself from God, when you don’t tell the truth.

What Jamie needs isn’t more confusion, which is what a lie always brings with it. What Jamie needs is a friend who values them enough to tell them truth, even though it may not be easy to do.

An even bigger issue is that little lies beget big lies, and big lies become entrenched in our lives, our homes and our families. They can carry on for generations. Lies exist and take root in God’s absence, in the dark. In the dark is where the enemy can establish himself in our life. Lies hide secrets, and some secrets can hold generations in bondage. Families have secrets to keep and these secrets (lies) keep people in bondage.

No one wants to be lied to, so how can we justify lying to someone else?

A person who tells the truth is a person who can be counted on. They are a person who can be believed, and they are a person who can become a bridge between believers, unbelievers and God.

Ephesians 4:15  Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of His body, the church.

The most important and immediate reason to tell the truth is so that you can remain in communion with God. First and foremost we need to be focused on doing what we see God doing; saying what we hear God saying, and that will always be true, and always be the truth.

Ephesians 4:23-25 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body.

 

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April 3, 2010

Change Your Mind

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Years ago my husband and I were having dinner with a man he worked with and his wife. The men had been talking about God and spiritual at things at work and Greg had been sharing with him many miracles and powerful things that had been happening in our life. After our guest ordered and finished three martinis in about 20 minutes she leaned across the table, looked Greg right in the eyes (more or less), and asked him with slightly slurred speech, “What do you have that we don’t have?” One miraculous healing at their house that night and we were delighted to see them come alive in Christ.

All power can effect change. Spiritual power effects eternal change.

Today in the church we are seeing a lot of emphasis and and attention to our political/legislative process. One of the outcomes of this emphasis is a great polarizing in our nation, including between Christians.

It is important to remember that our battle isn’t Conservative versus Liberal. It is the battle of light versus darkness. The conflict is between living a spiritual life in communion with God, or opting for the seemingly more popular humanism/materialism path. These are not compatible theologies.

When Lucifer fell, it was because he wanted to set his throne above God’s, and that is the battle that rages on the earth to this day. The battle for political, economic and social control is the world’s battle and we will not beat the enemy with his own game. We will only prevail, ultimately, by spiritual means.

We think we must work to have the law of land reflect our beliefs. Perhaps we should consider the sad possibility, that is exactly what is happening. The laws of the land may indeed reflect the overall beliefs of us as a nation. It may be that our beliefs are what we need to address first.

Never has our country become more godly than in the times of great revival. Prohibition, no matter what its good intent, lasted thirteen years and created more crime and social ill than had existed previously. The Prohibition laws were ineffective in bringing about a healthier society or a more righteous one.

Revival in America (First Great Awakening, Second Great Awakening) had a huge effect on society. In many places crime decreased precipitously and bars and brothels closed. The outcomes weren’t based on new laws. They were the result of people coming to Christ and being changed.

The natural always reflects the spiritual. I believe that we need to be a spiritual people, full of the Spirit of God, invested in changing the world around us. We need to begin with ourselves, our families, our social circles and neighborhoods. Within that context we can and should support and pursue godly political objectives, but not at the expense of being godly, spiritual people, and remaining in communion with God.

We need to pursue change that is fueled with love, wisdom, generosity, and hope. If we could all do that, society will change and perhaps the laws of our land will change accordingly as well.

Today, change your mind, be the peculiar person you were created to be, and do something good for someone.

What do you have, that can change someone’s life, today?

Ephesians 6:12  For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the world’s rulers, of the darkness of this age, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

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