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Change Your Mind, Spiritual living

May 6, 2010

Season for Promotion

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Are you ready for graduation?  What have you recently qualified for?

A friend wrote in his blog this week that while recently attending the Michigan graduation of his sons, the Pro-Life protesters outside the venue at times drowned out the speaker.1

Also this week J. Lee Grady wrote about attending his daughter’s graduation in Georgia a few years ago. The keynote speaker, a State Legislator with well known conservative Christian values launched into a “blistering tirade” about immigration policy blaming immigrants for dangers, drugs and disease”. 2  The tenor of the ceremony changed and people became uncomfortable and embarrassed. All the parents, graduates and well wishers, along with foreign nationals (parents) were forced to sit through this diatribe which was inappropriate rather than uplifting and inspirational as the event called for.

2 Corinthians 19-23 says, “Even though I am free of the demands and expectations of everyone, I have voluntarily become a servant to any and all in order to reach a wide range of people: religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, the defeated, the demoralized-whoever. I didn’t take on their way of life. I kept my bearings in Christ-but I entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view. I’ve become just about every sort of servant there is in my attempts to lead those I meet into a God-saved life. I did all this because of the Message. I didn’t just want to talk about it; I wanted to be in on it!”  3

People change from the inside out. If we want to see people transformed into, as Paul says, “a God-saved life”, we need to quit taking on the ways of the world. Its like Bible thumping,  now means trying to thump people over the head with a Bible, as if they can be transformed by osmosis in that process. Does anyone want to change their life and become like the person beating them over the head (even if that is only figurative)? I don’t think so.

In fact, we may need to consider Paul’s admonition to not just talk about the “Message” but to be the “Message”.

The world already has plenty of hostility, quarreling, outbursts of anger, dissension, division. 4  We don’t like to be the recipient of these things,  so why do we think they will have a positive impact on others? Galatians goes on to say, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. 5

These are things that people must experience and see in our lives, if we are to have any real hope of “leading” them into a God-saved life. We cannot use the ways of the world to achieve spiritual transformation. Only the Spirit changes things for good for eternity.

My suggestion: Today deliberately speak and impart the fruits of the spirit to at least five people, plus everyone you live with. Even better, every time you speak, first deliberately chose one of the fruits of the spirit to demonstrate in your speaking.  No talking about it, just doing it, being it.

In other words, stop talking about Christianity, and do it.

When I was young my Mother always reminded us as we went out the door that we needed to speak and behave in a certain way. The implication was that what we did and said reflected on our whole family.

Today, are you a good reflection of the God’s family?

Yes, I know that I’m preaching to the choir here. Someone please tell me why that seems necessary?


1. www.michaelhindes.com

2. J. Lee Grady, Fire in My Bones, May 5, 2010

3. The Message

4. Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Gal 5:20

5. Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Gal 5:22-23

Change Your Mind, Character versus Gifting, Communion with God, Spiritual living, Things that separate us from God, Today..., Trust

April 26, 2010

Today: Tell the Truth

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Zechariah 8:16-17 But this is what you must do: Tell the truth to each other. Render verdicts in your courts that are just and that lead to peace. Don’t scheme against each other. Stop your love of telling lies that you swear are the truth. I hate all these things, says the LORD.”

How did it happen that we have become so comfortable with not telling the truth? Not telling the truth of course is called lying. I’m not talking about the kinds of lies that people tell for the purpose of greed, personal gain at the expense of another, to damage another person or to sustain criminal activity. We all know that is wrong.

I’m talking about what people call “white” lies, as if there is some kind of sanctified lying. It is like calling witchcraft, “white witchcraft”. Witchcraft is witchcraft and lying is lying. Just because someone goes to church, doesn’t make their lying (or their witchcraft for that matter) somehow acceptable.

Let’s be clear. God said, “Tell the truth to each other”.

This isn’t just a little problem. This is a huge problem.

For example: your friend Jamie asks you if you have heard the rumors about them being sloppy (or rude, or dishonest or whatever)? It seems like it is just a little thing (a lie), to say that you haven’t heard about these rumors. After all, is it going to make Jamie feel better to know that you too have heard the rumors? Why embarrass them? It will be awkward.

If you go through this process, you are being disingenuous, and dishonest. Not to mention that you are enabling others to gossip and lie by trying to cover those actions up.

The truth is that a lie at this point will hurt Jamie. Jamie has already heard the rumor so you’re not telling them anything they don’t know, except perhaps that you too, had been gossiping about them.

Are you really protecting them? Or are you lying to protect your own reputation (your pride)? You see God hates lies, and there is no lie that stands on a good foundation. If you don’t want to admit to participating in gossip, don’t participate. Even if you lie to your friend, God still knows the truth. You are distancing yourself from God, when you don’t tell the truth.

What Jamie needs isn’t more confusion, which is what a lie always brings with it. What Jamie needs is a friend who values them enough to tell them truth, even though it may not be easy to do.

An even bigger issue is that little lies beget big lies, and big lies become entrenched in our lives, our homes and our families. They can carry on for generations. Lies exist and take root in God’s absence, in the dark. In the dark is where the enemy can establish himself in our life. Lies hide secrets, and some secrets can hold generations in bondage. Families have secrets to keep and these secrets (lies) keep people in bondage.

No one wants to be lied to, so how can we justify lying to someone else?

A person who tells the truth is a person who can be counted on. They are a person who can be believed, and they are a person who can become a bridge between believers, unbelievers and God.

Ephesians 4:15  Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of His body, the church.

The most important and immediate reason to tell the truth is so that you can remain in communion with God. First and foremost we need to be focused on doing what we see God doing; saying what we hear God saying, and that will always be true, and always be the truth.

Ephesians 4:23-25 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body.

 

Change Your Mind, Spiritual living, Today...

April 3, 2010

Change Your Mind

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Years ago my husband and I were having dinner with a man he worked with and his wife. The men had been talking about God and spiritual at things at work and Greg had been sharing with him many miracles and powerful things that had been happening in our life. After our guest ordered and finished three martinis in about 20 minutes she leaned across the table, looked Greg right in the eyes (more or less), and asked him with slightly slurred speech, “What do you have that we don’t have?” One miraculous healing at their house that night and we were delighted to see them come alive in Christ.

All power can effect change. Spiritual power effects eternal change.

Today in the church we are seeing a lot of emphasis and and attention to our political/legislative process. One of the outcomes of this emphasis is a great polarizing in our nation, including between Christians.

It is important to remember that our battle isn’t Conservative versus Liberal. It is the battle of light versus darkness. The conflict is between living a spiritual life in communion with God, or opting for the seemingly more popular humanism/materialism path. These are not compatible theologies.

When Lucifer fell, it was because he wanted to set his throne above God’s, and that is the battle that rages on the earth to this day. The battle for political, economic and social control is the world’s battle and we will not beat the enemy with his own game. We will only prevail, ultimately, by spiritual means.

We think we must work to have the law of land reflect our beliefs. Perhaps we should consider the sad possibility, that is exactly what is happening. The laws of the land may indeed reflect the overall beliefs of us as a nation. It may be that our beliefs are what we need to address first.

Never has our country become more godly than in the times of great revival. Prohibition, no matter what its good intent, lasted thirteen years and created more crime and social ill than had existed previously. The Prohibition laws were ineffective in bringing about a healthier society or a more righteous one.

Revival in America (First Great Awakening, Second Great Awakening) had a huge effect on society. In many places crime decreased precipitously and bars and brothels closed. The outcomes weren’t based on new laws. They were the result of people coming to Christ and being changed.

The natural always reflects the spiritual. I believe that we need to be a spiritual people, full of the Spirit of God, invested in changing the world around us. We need to begin with ourselves, our families, our social circles and neighborhoods. Within that context we can and should support and pursue godly political objectives, but not at the expense of being godly, spiritual people, and remaining in communion with God.

We need to pursue change that is fueled with love, wisdom, generosity, and hope. If we could all do that, society will change and perhaps the laws of our land will change accordingly as well.

Today, change your mind, be the peculiar person you were created to be, and do something good for someone.

What do you have, that can change someone’s life, today?

Ephesians 6:12  For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the world’s rulers, of the darkness of this age, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

Communion with God, Prayer, Relationships, Spiritual living, Trust, Uncategorized

February 10, 2010

Connecting with God (Quest for Communion, Pt2)

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If we accept that spiritual life is life with God at the center, then we need to be diligent about how we move to make that our reality.  To have God at the center of our life means that we are in communion with God, connected to Him. When we come into a tangible relationship with God, the only place He can be in our life is in the center. Prayer is the path to communion. There are many kinds of prayer: devotional prayer, intercessory prayer, prayers of petition. 

Years ago our Pastor, Larry Lea, taught us to pray using the Lord’s Prayer as a model, an outline. I want to share this with you because praying in this way will help you to increase your communion, your relationship with God. 

Remember that you are praying to cultivate your connection with God, to share with Him your heart, and to hear His heart. There is no place for recitation or scripts here. Use the outline, but let it flow from your spirit. Listening is as important as speaking.

  1. The scriptures are in bold type. You may have them committed to memory but pray them out loud, speaking to God.
  2. Then, use the italics as suggestions, “ice breakers”. Follow your heart and spirit, using your own words.
  3. Remember that you are after communication and connection. Listening is as important or more important than speaking.
  4. If you pray out loud, it will be easier to discern your voice from His.
  5. Find a quiet place, preferably at the beginning of your day and just as Jesus said, Pray this way:

Mat 6:9  .. Our Father, who is in Heaven, Hallowed by Your name.

  • Oh God, oh Father, You are the Most Holy (exalted, worthy of complete devotion) One.
  • God you are omniscient (complete awareness, knowledge).
  • You are omnipotent (almighty).
  • You God are omnipresent (present everywhere at one time).
  • I praise you and worship you God, Almighty God.

Mat 6:10 Your Kingdon come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.

  • God, today I say not my will, but Your will be done: for myself, my family, and in all facets of my life. I pray for Your will to be done and Your Kingdom to come.
  • Please show me Your will for my life so that I can pray for it, and be in concert with You.
  • For my  (work, school, community, state, nation, world) God I pray for Your will to be done.
  • For my enemies and adversaries Lord I bless those that curse me, and I pray for those who use me. Bless them Lord.
  • God open my eyes to see what You see. Illuminate my vision and my hearing so that I can embrace what You are doing in me, and around me.

Remember to be listening, not just speaking.

Mat 6:11  Give us this day our daily bread;

  • God I know that You are my provider. Help me to be content with Your provision today, and to trust You for all my needs.
  • Lord, please tell me what my real needs are. What are the things that I don’t know to ask for?
  • Have You made provision for me that I’m not seeing?
  • Am I asking for things that You, by Your wisdom and love, are not wanting for me?
  • Please change my mind, and teach me to be content in You.
  • If I’m going one way, and You have a different way for me God, please show me, close those wrong doors, speak to me, help me.

Mat 6:12 and forgive us our debt as we also forgive our debtors.

  • God please forgive me of my sins. I am so sorry for the things that I have done ________________________ that are not pleasing to You. I am so grateful that You are a God that forgives.
  • I choose today to forgive all those who have sinned against me.  Including  _____________________  who have slandered me, injured me, gossiped about me, or stolen from me, undermined me or ________________ …. I forgive them Lord.
  • If I come up short on this today Lord, please help me to walk in forgiveness continuously.

Mat 6:13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Yours is the Kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever.Amen.

  • Today God please order my steps according to Your will and Your ways. God please put Your words in my mouth. Help me to see what You see, in  people, in circumstances, in others.
  • You God, from whom no secrets are hidden, please deliver me from temptation and line up my thinking with Your thoughts.
  • Line up my feelings with You and what You are are doing.
  • Please put Your shield of protection around me/us and keep our enemies at bay.
  • You can do this because You are Almighty God, Creator and Ruler of the universe.
  • It is to You that all glory goes God. Help me to magnify Your Holy Name.
  • Thank  you God that you are Almightly God. Amen
  • Remember, God already knows what you think. If you engage Him, and you listen to Him, you can know what He thinks, what He sees.  He will speak to you and you will be changed.

     

    If you are changed, if you are transformed by God, others around you will be as well.

    (All scriptures are from the New Living Translation, and no, I do not know how to create a footnote or end note in Wordpress.)

Gifting, Spiritual living, Uncategorized

January 17, 2010

So you can see sin? (And you think that is a gift?)

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Satan is the leader in calling out sin, and making a spectacle of it. Whose team are you on?

One of the most encouraging things that I have discovered since Raising Spiritual Children: Cultivating a Revelatory Life was published is that a consistent response is that “this is not just about raising children, but it is for adults, too.” That is truth on several levels. One level is that what we missed out on when we were children can often be put into place when we are older, and we can have full restoration in that area.

In other words, when something we missed as a child is put in place within us, all that we missed along the way or over the years is also established in us as though we had had it all along.

Think of a person who has never experienced unconditional love. Their life will have been lived a certain way, with some clear and distinct voids and difficulties. However, at 30 or 40 or 50, if they experience unconditional love and can receive it, that void they have carried all of their life will be as if it was covered with a balm. Although they may have an intellectual knowledge of how they were growing up, they will not only be different today, but the past will not impinge on them in the same way either.

The unconditional love that they experience will make them whole.

It is a little bit like a computer. If your computer has missing or corrupted files, some or all of your computer programs will not work correctly. Overtime, performance even may deteriorate. Some things might work fine, of course, but there will be those programs or functions that simply do not work the same way they work for other people.

Once you restore that missing or corrupted file though, all the programs will work just like they were intended to.

This is a picture of restoration.

People who have been damaged or injured in life may have sinned (don’t we all), but correcting sin isn’t what they most need. What they most need is to have the important voids in their lives filled, healed, covered — pick your terminology. The outcome is restoration.

Today, there is a cultural mindset that instead of addressing the injury and wounds in a person, many people want to be the authority to hand out punishment and keep the focus on a person’s sin. (Trust me, sin will persevere. It doesn’t matter what penalty you try to extract for it; sin will pop up again doing its damage to someone else.) Some want to assess punishment, as if that is their role. (Some people do have this role of course, but it is a small fraction of the people who try to take it on.)

Confronted with the woman in adultery, remember what Jesus said to the accusers who wanted to stone her: “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” [1] After the accusers had scattered, Jesus turned to the woman. “Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?

No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.” [2]

What changed? The woman changed of course. She had been in the presence of the Jesus, and his impartation of love and hope and kindness transformed her, forever.

As a revelatory person, I see more sin than I would like to. I know that Jesus would have seen far more than me. I also see that Jesus worked to bring sinners to Him and to health and to wholeness. I believe that His words and His love imparted to the woman in adultery transformed her, and made her whole. They healed her and gave her hope.

So I try to let the revelation of sin just be a red flag to point out who needs love and hope and impartation.  I want to be able, by the Holy Spirit, to be a person who helps to build His church.

I want to have eyes that see what He sees, and to be the mouthpiece for His message, a carrier of His transforming love.

One of the most gratifying things we experience as parents is when our children grow up and do the things that we think are good and valuable.

As children of the King, I submit that we need to stop trying to please our detractors, stop acting out of fear, and make certain that we are pleasing Him.

It is the sinners around us who need us the most. Do you have what they need?

Jeremiah 29:11:  “‘For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.’”


[1] John 8:7

[2] John 8:10-11

Update

July 30, 2009

UK Report!

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How great to be home, but what a trip! Among the Young Adults at CLAN Gathering 2009 (St. Andrews, Scotland). “There were physical healings ( a deaf ear, ME), release of gifts (people speaking in tongues for the first time) and God revealing himself in deeply personal ways” as well as salvations.

This was a great group, and a wonderful community of emerging leaders.

The response to the Raising Spiritual Children and Living with Teenagers seminars exceeded my expectations greatly (never small you know) , and we seem to be jump starting things there.

As if that weren’t already a cup overflowing, there were wonderful times with old friends, and wonderful new friendships to be forged. If you know me well, you know the value we have for real friends.

Thank you all who prayed and believed for everything. The witchcraft was at bay, the people were ministered to, lives were changed, and hope was increased! No one knows better that most great things are underwritten in heaven by the intercessors, and I’m very, very grateful for all those who helped. Share the spoils!

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